For the.last year and a half my children's father has been struggling with meth addiction. I am an alcoholic who has struggled with my own recovery and relapses. It was a hardcore habit for him for almost a year, he was fired from his job and was clean for a few months, that I know of, he started a job in a terrible part of town and I have repeatedly found info and pipes and works of some sort on him almost every week or other week these last 6 or 7 months. I don't know how he gets the dope, I usually maintain the finances debit cards etc. It bothers me so much because I have heard such horror stories from other addicts. I guess I don't know what to do. We have 3 small children and one possibly on the way, I'm very newly pregnant and although I'd like to have faith and give another addict a chance, I'm exhausted. My home feels unsafe, unclean, and I am constantly stressed about going to work and leaving the children with him. He hasn't harmed them, but with continued meth use can I ever be sure they're safe? Or what if he brings one of these drug addicts around, such terrible things happen. I guess I'm just conflicted, do I uproot my children and run away or do I keep trying to work with him. He wasn't always like this, but now I don't even know if that's true.