It's always so dangerous to intertwine your road to recovery with the road of someone else but I'm seeing it all the time. If it's not someone in a romantic relationship saying they'll quit if you do it's a friend using it as a bargaining chip with another friend or a family member doing just the same. I like that the addiction is being spoken of but I hate how this is setting both parties up for failure. Time & time again I hear about someone being triggered to use again because the person who was trying to help them failed to stay with the program. Has anyone had experience with this?