I'd not cont on it He is so stubborn! You know how people are when they are that old, they have a harder time seeing that kind of things, sometimes they are just in denial. I don't know about him though. Don't get me started on the MIL!! The things she and the FIL have done, lol. I honestly don't know what am going to do about them when I move over there, I guess I'll adopt a more passive approach and just avoid them as much as possible. I hate the weight comments, I gained weight last year and the MIL and FIL were the first ones to say I heavier When both of them are waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay heavier than me. What do you do when she says something like that? For me the hardest part is to bit my tongue when my MIL, FIL or SIL do/say something just to bother me.