@Tremmie Well, we did not went to that party. I am okay with him forcing me to their parties but he can never force me take my sick son there. His health always comes first. And I will always put my son first before anything else even if it warrants a fight from his dad. Actually, I always tell him about these things. But he never listens to my side. That is the problem. He easily understands his mother or sister's side, but not mine. I have actually grown used to it. Now, I just do not say anything as I just come out whiney and immature to him. That is the problem too. He has never even lived with my parents at our house. He never has to spend time with them apart from a few minutes when he takes me and my son to my parent's house. Then he leaves immediately after taking us there.