I really hope things get better. I think back to 4 years ago, and what I went through, and my heart breaks for you!! If I didn't love him as much as I do, I would have never had the patience to stick it out. She hasn't changed. I'm sure she never will. But at least he sees the reality. I hope your fiance sees the truth, too. I know you wouldn't be with him, with all the grief his family gives you, unless you felt like he was worth it.