I am kinda at my limit with this. My mom had a ex husband that I guess is now a boyfriend that is coming around again. I am not sure what to do. I live on her property in a house of my own. So I feel that I shouldn't voice I dont want him there. Let me back up and maybe give some back story. The somewhat short story is my mom divorced my father after 30 years do to a sudden addiction he had. Well after that remarried once then again to the current person. In the 4 years maybe he has stolen and pawned stuff that was my father's and at the time my dying grandmothers. He was sent to jail but made a deal to pay my brother back the stuff he stole of my dad's, my dad had past away a year earlier. Well to say mom stayed with him and then came back from wherever he was working saying he was abusive or pushing her into getting very angry. Well after that there was a break back together he has always moved back into her house and not worked when he has welding qualifications. At least what she says. On the second break up it was bad taking her truck obsessive behavior and after we got her truck back I found drug items. I would guess at that time meth. Well got back together and basically same story not working but doing things around the house. After maybe a month or so same behavior always right loud obsessive even if I was talking to my mom. Eventually he took her truck again we get it back and for meth and in a shed on the property drug items. Now after maybe 3 or 4 months in jail he is back talking with her saying he is working is going through court counciling it was ever Saturday but he is at the house ever Saturday. I guess I am needing advice on how to handle this? I dont believe he could be helped with just 3 or 4 months of jail and maybe a month of counciling and at least for a month if the jail term he constantly called my mom. I have brought up some of my concerns to her but I am then labeled as tring to rule her life and not giving him a chance. What should I do I try to just ignore it but I just get so angry.