So I'm turning 21 in about a month, and it's super exciting. I was joking around with my mom a few weeks ago, after I told her that my dad and I will be going to Atlantic City to do a bit of gambling for my birthday in May, asking her how she plans on one-upping my father, since she is constantly trying to do that. She wants to take me for a beer for my birthday, since there is a brewery that just opened up near her house. That doesn't sound too bad, but the fact that she's an alcoholic makes me absolutely not want to do that with her at all. It just sounds like such a bad idea, but she wants to do it so badly. Even though she has never been one to drink beer (she's more of a vodka-lemonade or white wine person), she thinks that since it would be beer she would be fine and that I shouldn't worry about her. What do you guys think??