I have been in a relationship with a guy who will just not stop drinking He has already lost his job as a result of his addiction to alcohol and now depends on his folks for sustenance. As of now he has is back living with them. He comes from a large family and his parents are struggling to bring up the rest of their children yet now they have him to think of as well. I am not sure they will be able to get him help seeing as they have a lot in their hands. I care so much about this guy it is tearing me apart. Thought of how he has turned out are constantly in my mind and I wish I would be able to help. I brought up the issue of him seeking help but he laughed it off saying he did not need it as he would stop drinking when he liked. I don't think he realizes what he has got himself into as noone can convince him otherwise. My question is, how do I convince him that he needs help despite being so stubborn about the drinking problem? Is there a way to make him realize he needs help?