Ever had a friend that you want to hang out with and be a positive role model, and all they want to do is think about their next drink or getting their next fix. I find it to be a real drag. Does it make you just stop even hanging out with them? I find it so frustrating. I will come up with a really cool day, like hanging out at the beach. What's not to like about spending a day in the sun having fun! And if they show up, all they do is keep looking at their watch! I say, "if" because I have been stood up more times then I can count!