My husband has been sober for about 1 1/2 years. He had about 2 days in that time he drank, but that is it. I find that he still seems to cycle through moods; almost as bad as when he was drinking! He will be OK for a few days, then gradually get angrier and angrier over the smallest things for a few days, until he has a major blow up and almost psychotic episode, then he is back to being somewhat normal. The cycle lasts a couple of weeks. It is so hard on the children and I. He denies that he is ever different and says it is all me. I know that is not true because the children are upset by it too. Has anyone else dealt with this? I am at a loss as to what to do!