I have not used drugs or smoked for many years, but I know I have an addictive personality. I think my only current addictions are coffee and herb tea! I am wondering if a person can be addicted to someone in a dysfunctional relationship? I am in process of splitting up with my current alcoholic husband. I suspect he is BPD/NPD or something along those lines. The relationship is really bad with his controlling and physical and mental abuse. I left before, but ended up coming back after he said he would change. It didn't happen; things actually are worse than ever! But I miss him when I am away from him! Ugh, it is so sick! I start thinking maybe it was all my fault and I should have done something differently. He can be an amazing person, but I do not think that part of him is actually real, KWIM? Is it possible that I am somewhat addicted to him? Or am I just generally nuts?? I would love to hear your thoughts and experiences!