I have an aunt who may be an alcoholic on some level. As far as I know she does not get drunk, or doesn't do that very often, but she seem to HAVE to have wine in the evening, usually 2-3 glasses from my observations. My dad has never allowed her to bring wine to our house because my family does not drink. Now that I am an adult, it may be my turn to tell her that there is no alcohol in my home either. I have never had a good relationship with her, but I want to be polite and respectful if this ever comes up. Do any of you have any experience with relatives who want to bring their wine or other alcohol when they come over for dinner? Have you said "no" and if so, from your experience, what is the best way to handle that.