There are some individuals who can drain your energy and emit such gloom that this will have you feeling negative and demotivated just being around them. Some people go to the extreme to tear down your personality and if they know that you are not comfortable about a particular aspect of your life they will dwell on this always, in an attempt to make you feel undesirable within yourself. I know this girl from high school and we even went to college and university together, we are now working at the same place so she considers herself to be my friend. She will always be saying 'Nikki you not as slim and trim as me so you cant this and you cant that'. Then she would play the card of being married and say 'Nikki when are you going to find a man and get a family?' She even say this in the presence of others at times and this is just something that always have me feeling as if I just am lacking in something when she says it and she knows this. The latest one that she pulled out was telling me that I did not accomplish as much as she did even though I was a year older than her! I looked into it and just wonder why she would have said something like that just outright like that, it was just really strange to me and that is when I decided that our relationship needed to be revamped. I could not go on with this woman constant criticism and nagging in my ears on a daily basis. I decided to part company with this girl, not because of the fact that I am not strong enough but because I realize that her energy is too negative and and the 'friend' that she claim to be it is not really a friendship that is worthy in any way or promotes growth or any ounce of positive energy.