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Car Accident halted my recovery.

Discussion in 'Share Your Story Here' started by AngryItalian, Jan 5, 2016.

  1. AngryItalian

    AngryItalian Member

    I have completely withdrew my desire to go to the casino. If I had thousands of thousands of dollars and you dropped me off at a casino I'd come out with a job application. That's the mindset I had before I was cut down by a semi truck that wanted to text and drive.

    I was out applying for jobs when suddenly on my way home a semi slammed into the back of me into another car, crushing me between the car in front of me.

    My car is totaled and where I live there is no way to get to work. No bus. Not even a taxi that will come out this far. All because of someones irresponsibility I have been cut down in the middle of getting my life back together. I destroyed my life at the casino. My job was willing to take me back and I can't go back. I have no car. This time it's not even my fault.

    I am running a hosting business soon from my bedroom. I am hoping that it will help me enough to eat at least. I am also offering a month of hosting for free with a 5$ donation.
  2. L_B

    L_B Community Champion

    I am sorry to hear about all of your troubles. It is frustrating when you are down and you get find a way back up. I hope everything works out for you. Wishing you all the best.
  3. deanokat

    deanokat Community Organizer Community Listener

    Very sorry to hear about your troubles, @AngryItalian. Try to keep a positive attitude and know that I am praying for you.
  4. dyanmarie25

    dyanmarie25 Community Champion

    My heart goes out to you. I am really sorry to hear about all those issues/difficulties you have went through in the past. Just like what other posters have already said, try to be optimistic, and keep yourself motivated. I would be praying for you, and I do wish you well.
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  5. zaerine

    zaerine Community Champion

    Sorry to know about that but still good thing that you are okay after that accident. Or maybe you can try freelancing jobs online which can at least help you even little by little. Hoping you have a nice day.
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  6. gracer

    gracer Community Champion

    Hi AngryItalian. Reading your story gave me feeling of angst because I felt the pain and loss from your words. I'm really sorry to hear about what you had to go through. It really hurts to know that right when you are ready to begin anew, something or someone suddenly prevents you from reaching your goals.

    I guess all I can say right now is that, things might seem to be in a mess right now and nothing is going the way you want them to be but there is still a spark of hope for you. You survived the accident because there is still something good in store for you which will arrive at the right time.

    I encourage you to never lose hope and I wish you strength not only in your physical aspect but most especially in your inner self to be able to face each day full of hope and vigor.
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  7. doatk22

    doatk22 Community Champion

    Did you get a settlement from the accident? I really hope things look up for you and that person never texts and drives again.
  8. serenity

    serenity Community Champion

    Sorry to hear about what has happened to you, I hope that you will eventually find a solution to all your problems. Hang in there and I will be praying for you.
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  9. Winterybella

    Winterybella Community Champion

    I am along to welcome you and join the others in hoping you find a solution. I encourage you to think positive thoughts and reject negativity in any form. What happened is tragic but I do believe that out of seemingly hopeless situations, something great can happen. I hope the hosting business gets off the ground and it provides you with some income to get you going. I truly wish you success and pray that everything will be okay.
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  10. ReadmeByAmy

    ReadmeByAmy Community Champion

    @AngryItalian Hello and thank you for sharing your story with us here in this forum! You had been into struggles with your casino addiction and had decided to completely stay away in that place. Then while you are on your way to look for a job you met a car accident that is now making you some problems. Don't despair for there are still better days to come into your life. Just think positive that you can still make your life better and just have that faith and keep on praying and all the best of luck to you!
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  11. deanokat

    deanokat Community Organizer Community Listener

  12. Winterybella

    Winterybella Community Champion

    It's so good when we get to know how others are doing isn't it? I too would love to know how AngryItalian is doing. I am hoping she is happy and cheerful.
  13. kgord

    kgord Community Champion

    Well, I am sorry that you are suffering Angry. Sadly, there are just things we can't control about this life, and we have to learn to cope with them as best as we can. I can't say that I always cope well, when things don't go my way, but it sounds like you are trying to make lemonade out of lemons, and for that I commend you.
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  14. deanokat

    deanokat Community Organizer Community Listener

    I hope @AngryItalian check in with us soon.
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  15. anorexorcist

    anorexorcist Community Champion

    I'm so sorry to hear about your situation, especially because it wasn't your fault at all... But sometimes we need situations like this to know that we are strong enough to face them and become more strong after that, I'm pretty sure that you are going to be one of those people, just don't give up.
  16. Tremmie

    Tremmie Community Champion

    I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you! Have you tried looking for jobs that can be done from home? I think right now the most important thing is that you keep a positive attitude, I mean, you could have died in that crash or end up incredibly disabled.