Being new to this forum I posted under the drug section. Thank you true concern for your reply. For some background on my situation...my boyfriend is my best friends brother. His sister and I know he has a drug problem and have addressed it to him together two years ago. Since then he has been back and forth with his use but it recently has become more frequent. I’m afraid if we don’t confront him now it will get worse for him. in the past when his sister and I confronted him together he was pissed at me for telling her his business and teaming up with her. But we are the two people in his life left that have stuck with him throughout it. This week we both saw what was so obvious his addiction at separate times and have growing concern for his well being. My question is do we confront him again together or each bring our concerns separately? I don’t want to lose his trust in me for “bringing his sister into t again” but I also feel he will try to manipulate us if his sister and I are alone. He already tried to separate me from her so he can tell us different stories and les. If we are together we can possibly stop that from happening.