I am a very concerned wife at the end of her rope. Our relationship is more than failing, and i feel so alone and unsure about everything. My husband had many drug problems as a teen and experienced many traumatizing events. Still we fell in love and got married young after being together for a couple years. We've been together for nearly 7 years and now everything is chaos. I always had suspicions that they were involved with drugs but I really only thought it would be something like marijuana, but I'm extremely worried now. I found a small packet of crystals in the bathroom, when i confronted the issue he told me a story of giving a ride to a friends mom who was involved with drugs and instead of money she gave him this packet of "bath salts" I wasn't convinced. So when i looked up bath salts they were not the same thing, the substance I found was glassy like tiny shards. But when i looked up meth the images were exact. There are many other signs such as toilet paper in the trash shaped like a pipe, the obsessive behavior, and once i found a pipe under the washing machine. The problem is that I am completely unknown to drugs what they look like, how you use them what they do. So i thought it was for marijuana but it was so strange and i was puzzled as to how he used it. Until i researched meth and that pipe was the one that was hidden. He of course said a friend hid it there so his parents wouldn't find it but I just don't think so. Him and his friends all had a history of meth they used it for a while until they decided to stop because of what it was doing. But im sure that things are different his attitude, and way of being he can be so nice but then change so quickly. There are things that discourage me from thinking its meth because he doesn't scratch, or have bad teeth, he doesn't have a sex drive, at all really! He still functions in a way that shows he's there such as looking for a job, he lost weight, and is very insomniac but still looks healthy. I'm so unsure and I really don't know if its something he's using or selling. I'd like help i just don't know where to turn.