Hi all, I'm pretty new to the forum, but have been a long-time lurker and have learned so much from everyone's contributions here. Hoping someone will be able to help me with my problem! My partner and I both smoke about 10 cigarettes a day - he has for about eight years, me for five. I'm very much ready to kick the habit; I'm working out a lot more and am finding my endurance certainly isn't what it used to be! Only thing is, my partner isn't. He says he hopes he won't be smoking by the time he's 30 (he is 26 now), but won't put any plan into place to give it up with me, and changes the subject every time I bring it up. I know I should be setting a good example by going through the process first and showing him it's not impossible, but I feel it would be too hard unless we do it together. Does anybody have any advice?