substance abuse is rampant in both sides of my family and my husbands family. Our 14 year old daughter is struggling with anxiety and depression. About 3 is f her friends smoke marijuana and she sees nothing bad side effects. Without my knowledge or consent my husband and our counselor allowed her to go to a friends house on 3 occasions where marijuana was available and was smoked. She “promised” she would not however e found out that was a lie. She has on at least 2 occasions. Question one—what type of communication does she have with this friend and question 2–how much faith do we put into this counseling r who knowingly thought it was ok to send her back there and no tbtell me? HELP