I want to be supportive. I want to make sure she is okay. I want to be there in case of an emergency. All of these thoughts go through my mind, when the phone rings in the middle of the night. My husband and I just look at each other and no words need to be spoken. It is the same old routine. I stumble out of bed and listen to the drunken stupor of my sister-in-law. Most of the time, she does not even remember our conversations. I hear the same stories repeated in a long drawn out fashion. I could probably finish her sentences, but I don't. It is like this every-time, she goes back on a binge. When she is recovery, life is good, When the cycle starts again the patterns of these late night phone calls begin again. What should I do? Should I keep answering these late night phone calls? Should I turn my ringer on silence?