If a person gets up, and goes to work everyday. Takes care of their family, isn't a threat to others. Then if they want to smoke pot then I don't have a problem with them. If the person is sorry won't hold a job. Goes out, and steals, bums and has no respect for themselves, or others in my eyes they are a low life, and I do look down on them that's what we call a pot head just wants to stay stoned with no life.