For those of you with an alcoholic spouse or family member that you're around a lot. If they are in recovery do you not drink in order to support them? This is something that I'm curious about. I can not drink anymore due to having weight loss surgery, but when my husband was sober for so long I decided to not drink at all to be supportive to him. When he went back to drinking I would have the occasional beer when I was able to (before surgery). I don't care for drinking so it was not hard for me to not do it.