We've been together for nearly 2 years and in the relationship have had our own addictions that we both struggle with. I've been daily smoking weed for around 8 months now and she has been drinking majority of the relationship but has had brief times of sobriety. All she will drink is whiskey, her addiction isn't as bad as it was in the past when she would be drinking 30 shots a day and now it's down to around 10 a day. She doesn't make money any I'm the one enabling her to drink but if I say no when she asks it turns into a whole argument where I'm pissed off at her and she's upset to now she wants to drink more than before. We've tried her drinking in moderation but if I get a pint she'll get a small buzz but then always uses her tolerance and her weight as an excuse since she's gained a bit which turns into me going and getting it or arguing about it than break down and end up buying it for her. I have my addiction too smoking weed everyday but it doesn't make me feel sick constantly and force me to lay in bed all day and sleep like hers will. I enjoy smoking and would like to stop but I feel like I need to quit my addiction first even though it's not harming me like hers is just to be able to get her to quit hers addiction. I hope things can change soon and we'll both be able to quit.