I just registered today because our son Bryan has admitted to using cocaine over the past few years. He is only 23 and only admitted this to us recently even though we have known something has been wrong for a while. My and my husband's family have incidents of alcoholism so we have always been concerned for our kids and my Bryan definitely drinks too much or has in the past. Bryan did agree to go to the doctor who referred him to a 12 step program and he has been going and seemed to like it. However, yesterday, he went AWOL and wouldn't answer our phone calls so we tracked him down and took his truck because we didn't want him to drink and drive as he has a DUI conviction. He lashed out at us and didn't come home and didn't go to work and of course, his phone is dead. Of course, we have no idea what to do. I think I joined because I just don't know where to turn really. My husand and I are both not sure what to do. Anyway, that's our story.