In need of a little advise here and hoping you all can provide me with some tips and support. My spouse has been working a lot and has a couple of drinks almost nightly, and he can get a little grumpy because of how tired he is. I have to admit that I have been drinking a little more than normal because it calms my nerves, and I know that I need to stop this. I have been dealing with the fact that he does not want to just sit and talk right now and it is hard because I am feeling a little neglected. He is also not one to talk about his feelings, so I don't even know if he is doing ok. He gets annoyed when I ask him how he is feeling and says I think too much. What does all of this mean?