Most friends who know me well know why I don't drink, and in fact many of them also abstain in order to show their support for me, which I really appreciate more than they could ever really know. However, there are still a lot of people, friends AND family, who seem to think that it's okay to put the pressure on to have a drink. If I'm standing at a bar and order a fruit juice they will be on my case to let my hair down and have a drink with alcohol in it. I don't want to tell them about my problems, however I also want to make sure that they won't ask anymore. How can I get the balance right, to ensure that I will be left in peace?