It is often a very fine line for people to walk - the difference between loving your child and being there for them, versus enabling their addiction. This article offers some advice on how to walk that fine line. Namely, by being available, being proud of, and loving them, being welcoming and reading, researching & seeking professional assistance. What are your experiences with walking that line? Do you employ the techniques listed in that article to good effect? I think one of the hardest parts is being welcoming. It's not that you don't want to be, it's just that separating them from the drugs, and keeping your home drug free, is such a challenge.