I was really excited that my bf quit smoking, but this excitement was short lived. He started smoking again after about 3 weeks sober. He said he was planning to smoke less and less as the days ago by. I went for a 2 week vacation on my own and it seems like he's gone back to his old smoking habits and hasn't verbally told me that he plans to quit anytime soon. Obviously this is disappointing to me, but it's not about me. He feels sensitive talking about smoking because he considers it a major weakness. Have you been successful motivating a partner to quit?