This is first support group I’ve joined because tonight I realized I need it. I’m so upset!! I am with my fiancé, who was there before my addiction, during and after. We are at a family gathering and my sister-in-law asked if I wanted an alcoholic drink. I politely declined, but my fiancé, who was right there and should’ve known better, asked me again. I said no and then she practically begged me to get one! And then she tried a third time! I am 43 days sober from cocaine and heroin after a suicide attempt, and I have made it known I don’t ever want to drink alcohol just yet. How could she ask more than once?!