Have you let a love one stay with you who was on drugs or alcohol? My brother seem to be doing better (at lease he said he was) and I asked his son to allow him to stay with him. At first things were going well, but then he began to act out. He started getting very angry, hostile and accusing his son of things that was not true. Needless to say, he had him to leave. I never let my brother stay with me since I live in another state. I have all girls and I would fear that he would just be out-of-control. He has mention moving to get away from old friends, but I believe if he is not ready to change no matter where he goes he will have problems.