I've been seeing this guy for about a year and I have come to love and care for him a great deal. He's a coke head, but was clean for 10 years though not really by choice. Since the first of the year he has been consumed with financial stress. About a month ago he was given Norco for neck pain. Shortly after that he went on his first binge since I've known him. Two weeks later he moved a crack whore into his house and they have been lost in drugs and sex since. Quite a blow to me. Is this the norm for coke heads? I know after his first binge a month ago he was upset that he'd put this money on his back again. Would ask me why he was self sabotaging when his life was going so well and he was so loved and respected by his peers and coworkers. I told him I knew that answer but it was one he needed to find himself. We had been getting more involved with each other since the holiday's. It was clear that he wanted to be around me. Now he will not talk to me will only respond to a text from me when I ask "are you ok" then he responses with Yes or Yes thank you for checking. My friends say walk away he chose to move a crack whore in over being with you clearly you mean nothing to him. I don't believe this, I'm sure he cares, but why go for the crack whore he's know all of about a month as I suspect he met her the first time he went looking for drugs. I believe that he chose her more because she's and addict and I am not. I believe his own self worth is driving all of this. I believe the drugs are in control. But needless to say his moving the crack addict into his house and blowing me off is about the drugs and not that he sees me as worthless and the crack hoe as a valuable partner. So I watch from a distance and pray he will get helps soon. Am I fooling myself into thinking I mean something to him? Am I fooling myself into believing he is savable?