I don't have anywhere else to go with this question. I found out my 13 yr old niece is having sex with a 16 yr old boy. My 11 yr daughter told me and made me promise not to tell anyone. I know teens like to experiment but she was watching porn to learn how to have sex. Most porn is pretty demeaning to women my opinion. I spent this week feeling my brother and sister in-law out they are strict parents. I know they probably won't handle this news good. I know it would kill my brother. The way my niece is behaving is leading her down a very bad road and I want to help her see some things that she's been doing isn't appropriate for someone her age. I also don't want to break the bond I have with my daughter by talking to her parents. I hope that when my kids become sexually active they would be able to talk to me about it. If they need to. Any input you I would appreciate. Y'all have been very helpful to me these past few months.