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Masturbation ewww!

Discussion in 'Other Substances' started by Davienna, Feb 20, 2016.

  1. darkrebelchild

    darkrebelchild Community Champion

    I think @Davienna you are passing through a phase which will pass as soon as you find someone to distract you. You need to get something relaxing but tasking that would discourage you from porn and masturbation. I guess your hormones are playing tricks on your mind.

    Stay positive, you will be in a relationship soon and this will all be over.
  2. Davienna

    Davienna Community Champion

    Thank you very much for this. I think it will be absolutely useful.
  3. monty

    monty Active Contributor

    Yes! I got it that's what I was looking for I was also in the same situation earlier but I was thinking that only I was doing this but when I searched a lot on internet I came to know the real truth that this is very common among all the creatures on the globe so no need to worry about all this.These are totally rubbish and is common among all.
  4. Rainman

    Rainman Community Champion

    @Davienna, a sex addiction like many addictions might not be easy to beat but unlike other addictions where you can use strategies such as weaning yourself off the drug, with masturbation addiction you can't say, you'll masturbate less and then stop.

    No. You have to stop and resist the urge to pleasure yourself. It will be hard initially but it'll get easier after a month or so.

    If you aren't willing to stop immediately then choose a date when you'll stop. It could be a week from now or even two weeks from now but once you get there, stop. Don't give any excuses because freedom from sex addiction will free up more of your time which you can use for lots of different things — even on dating sites online.
    45 minutes a day for 5 days a week isn't an addiction. But porn has a way of making you want to watch more and more of it. So since things aren't that bad, you should stop watching porn and masturbating now because if you wait, you might find it hard to stop watching porn or masturbating more often.
  5. Vinaya

    Vinaya Community Champion

    For someone who is single, masturbation is a common phenomena. However, it you are doing many times in a day,that it is a problem. Masturbation also becomes a problem when you continue to do even if you have a partner.
    Too much masturbation occurs when the person is lonely, sad, and dejected.
  6. djolem

    djolem Senior Contributor

    It is not sad at all. It is a basic need and you should do it but as you said it can be a problem if you get addicted. I am not sure how it works with the ladies but I have noticed in one solo period that I have been addicted to masturbation watching exclusively some porn sites and I had a problem when I was with a girl after that. In front of the screen no problem but with a girl who is not all that perfect I had some problems. My mind wanted those perfect tens and she was not a ten of course. I realized I had made a wrong kind of system of values for myself and I was addicted.
  7. monty

    monty Active Contributor

    Yes! masturbation is very common among all the living beings on earth.Even monkeys also masturbate.Do you know?So, no need to worry about doing masturbation once a day is ok but 2-3 times a day may make you weak and addicted to this.You will look out for masturbating even when you are at work and that's where the problem occurs.It's worst when you are addicted to this.Keep in mind.Don't make it a habit!Because it can be dangerous for you.
  8. Tremmie

    Tremmie Community Champion

    Funny, a lot sexologists used to say back when I was little that masturbation was encouraged when you are young, because you know yourself better and such. But I guess that once you start doing it at places like work, then that is a big problem. Not so long ago I made a disgusting discovery while flying to another city, the guy who used the bathroom before me must have done the deed there... NEVER flying with that airline again.
  9. madetofly

    madetofly Member

    I agree that Masturbation is common among all living creatures but being addicted to it is a different thing and this is painful too. I was also masturbating daily and then I came to know about nofap on Reddit which is a subreddit of then it helped me a lot to stop my addiction to it. Now I masturbate irregularly and once or twice in a week.
    But I came to know that this is common and not a big problem for us. It's just normal when you do it. But if it affects your social life then it might be a problem.
    Good luck.
  10. ZXD22

    ZXD22 Senior Contributor

    Being addicted to masturbation can really hinder your success. If you get these urges at work or at school, you could be wasting upwards of 200 hours a year in the bathroom masturbating compared to either working or learning new material. If you earn 20$ an hour, that is upwards of a loss of 4,000$ a year!
  11. GenevB

    GenevB Community Champion

    I do not think you are being addicted to it. It is probably just the way your body tells yourself "hey, you're fertile", I have found myself in periods like yours, mainly because of my daily activities, I would hit the gym pretty hard which increased my hormonal levels, also I would've take some supplementation with Zinc and Magnesium, guess what those increases hormonal levels too, and after a day I would've found my hormones through the sky, masturbating was simply a response to that, not an addiction. Think about these factors, and see if they apply to you also, as you simply might have higher than usual hormone levels.
  12. puneeth8994

    puneeth8994 Active Contributor

    It always helps to indulge in other things which will keep you busy. That's what I usually do.
  13. Adrianna

    Adrianna Community Champion

    Sorry but this sounds like something a guy or teenager would do. Just wondering why the subject comes up in a drug forum. Perhaps a drug or chemical is causing this to happen. Something in the water. I've heard stories about something in tap water that makes men act passive, like girls.