I have a friend who had to take sleep medication for a while. She got mixed up with some guy and I hardly saw her. Recently she moved home and asked me to help her. I went because I heard desperation in her voice. She was behaving strangely and told me that she had been drinking wine and smoking grass every day with a friend. She was also taking sleeping tablets and on anti anxiety medication. I was shocked at her behavior. I never knew her like this. She is no longer friends with these people and no longer smoking, but still drinking wine every day and on medication. I stayed with her for 2 weeks because she seemed traumatized. I had to have it out with her about her drinking and meds every day because she would fall into bed like a zombie every night! She always drank before, socially, not like this! She thought it was fine but could not see herself.