My ex husband was a raging, non functioning alcoholic. He couldn't work or take care of our children. He was abusive and completely unstable. I have gone from one extreme to the complete opposite. My current boyfriend has never had a drink or any sort of drug in his entire life. He hasn't even smoked a cigarette. I have never been with somebody like this, I myself have done an incredible amount of experimentation and only quit smoking marijuana last year. He is totally against all drugs and doesn't necessarily like when I drink even though I do it very rarely. I love his clean life, but wonder if this will work. Does anybody have a similar experience or any advice?