Hello. My ex is an alcoholic. She just completed 28 days. I am very proud of her and was very supportive while she was in rehab. I wrote her countless letters and cards supporting her and telling her how much she means to me. Although we were divorced 4 years ago, we attempted to reconcile in late 2015 but it ended again in early 2017 because her drinking was just too much. We maintained a loving and caring relationship after that and we both told each other we love each other. Since she left rehab She has refused to discuss anything with me and just says she has to focus on her sobriety. I get that and I agree but if she wants to ignore me why didn't she just write to me and say "please don't send anymore letters" or "I don't have feelings for you anymore". I feel like I have been lead on. Is she being selfish. Its killing me that she won't talk to me. How hard is it to just send a text saying leave me alone?