I've shared my story but I want to share another about my three sons. They were very young but old enough to understand that something was wrong with their father. I often wondered how they would be affected once on their own. I've watched them grow into three responsible young men. Yeah, two of them drink but not reckless or abusive to their families. I remember one day their father started to talk vulgar to me in the presence of one them. I was so surprised that he stepped up in front of everyone and told him to stop, that's my mom. I wanted to cry though not from fear or embarrassment but because I knew then that that behavior was not going to be tolerated from him to me any more. There are others who have watched and wondered about children they know who grew up under those circumstances, how they are fairing now, beit good or not so good?