Sometimes, we look to substance in a way that hides our emotions. In order to have complete dominion and self control is to be able encounter the problems that occur in day to day life head on with complete authority. Understanding the power embedded in you will definitely strip the infallibility which kept you in a state of dependence. The only time I understood this power was when I walked in the spirit with God. For then, I could see what held me from being myself. By then, all of the desires of my heart were easily being met over the course of time walking with God.