My wife was totally and completely into weed when we met and got together. She and her brother were high together 24/7 it seemed. She was high at work, she was high when she drove, and she was high when we were together (I was never into it). She would be so messed up that she could barely focus her eyes. I have never seen someone so high they looked totally drunk. I am just trying to get the point across how bad she was, even though it was "only" marijuana. Because I didn't do it, she started to do it less. The more serious we got the less she did. When she got pregnant she quit altogether. Since my son's birth nine years ago, she has smoked about three times. You can control yourself if there is a good enough reason. Your thoughts?