@forlucyslove... Welcome to the community and thanks for sharing. I'm sorry to hear about the situation with your son and his girlfriend. Heroin is a nasty drug, for sure. My son is 25 years old and is 3 years clean from heroin, so I have an idea of what you're going through.
Talk to your son often. Tell him how much you love him and how concerned you are for his well-being. Tell him how his heroin use makes
you feel. Don't get angry. Just talk to him with compassion and empathy.
The hardest part about being a parent in a situation like this is that we can't control or fix our child. They will decide to use or not use drugs no matter what
we want. All we can do is talk to them and hope they make the right decisions.
They have to want to change.
I wish I had a magical solution to your problem, but I don't. However, I will keep you and your son in my thoughts and prayers.
Sending you peace and hugs.
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