I have a friend who is currently battling with low self esteem. She has been doing really great, as she has been sober for 2 months now. Until, her boyfriend of 9 months broke up with her. I don't really know the cause of the break up, but I think it had a lot to do with her low self esteem and the fact that she had become really clingy. I just need some advice on how I can help her get over him and get herself together. As this is a really dangerous period for her to break down. She might start using again.