I have a friend who is frustrating me to no end and I am seeking advice on what I can do to help her. She smokes pot all day everyday, has no job, and a very controlling husband. She is currently submitting resumes to get a job, but she is going to have a hard time getting a job if she has to do a urine test. Her husband is a complete ass and is very insecure. He does not let her do anything and tries to quash all progress she makes being independent. She keeps saying that she is going to leave him, but she also does not make any effort to do it. He has also hit her in the past. I am afraid for her and do not know what to do.