My husband had almost 4 years of sobriety and about a year and a half ago we were at some friends house and they were drinking..he decided that he could have just a beer. Well, most of us who've dealt with addiction know what happens with that. He quit for about a month and then one day this past summer he was out mowing and I looked out and saw him chugging a beer. He's currently about a month into being sober and I'm really hoping this is something he will continue. I love him with all my heart and really want him healthy and sober. I'm working on myself and would love to have him start exercising with me and eating right. He will not attend AA meetings though for whatever reason. So..I worry about that but there isn't a thing I can do about it. Sure hoping for the best!