When faced with difficult choices in life it can be hard to stay positive. The best advice I could give is stay active and diligently dedicate yourself to building a positive attitude and helping others. Some times we dig a grave and forget how to dig ourselves out. A key reason is our inability to try harder to understand ourselves and others. When we our not empathetic of ourselves and others feelings, life becomes harder. Entirely, it is like baking a cake and forgetting the eggs. Every essential part of understanding and cooperation is needed to build relationships with one another. I know it is hard work, but the results are endless.