so I’ve been dealing with my wife’s alcoholism, anxiety and depression for years, and it only seems to keep getting worse. She is now meeting up with people who she barley knows and winds starting her evenings some nights at 9:00 pm, going out and leaving me and our 4 kids at home. There have been some questionable things happen that I am not sure if she is being completely honest about. I keep being told that “lying and denial” go hand in hand with addiction. She keeps saying she has things under control, and I have not been able to convince her to get help. Any suggestions on how to convince her and how to have her open up about things.