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Trying to help my wife but how

Discussion in 'Share Your Story Here' started by Corey, Jul 26, 2018.

  1. Corey

    Corey Member

    Seeing her suffer from using not saying im not gona blast her being on here but it hurts to see sum1 go through this u csre about i found sum things ojt on my own hoping she would come to me she knows i have idea whats goin on i want to better this myself for her it just so hard sum times any advice will help me alot thanks i am qhiet i am patiant she is in dynial stage i think how do i get her help all i get most of time when i try motivate talk imshe says not now please i step back and say ok an my heart burns inside hoping 1 day she open up to me she did once then she keeps having set backs withdraws i think she is preganet 4 months with my child so sad im 33 yrs old im not a user but i have in my past my hole family has used i try use it to better myself to help others keep clear head i have a 4 year old little gjrl she is my world i am a strong man any advice on this please let me know
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  2. True concern

    True concern Community Champion

    Need a little more information,what is she on?How much does she use?How long has she used?
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  3. Corey

    Corey Member

    Think shes been using for while im just now finding out quiet a bit i do belive she works to suport it also she is having i hope would be my child but she did tell me once she had problem but she was almost done winging her self off it on her own for better good of baby inside her i found stuff other day she denies it goes off on me when i try to ask about it i really wanna help her so fkn bad i cant stand this ****
  4. Corey

    Corey Member

    Shes fireing H and on pills i pray every day this child does not come out hooked it tares me up so bad to see a young soul fall to the devil i got a past also but i am fully recoverd 15 years sober
  5. True concern

    True concern Community Champion

    Suboxone....get her to a Dr and explain what's going on and tell the Dr you need Suboxone to save your wife's life!!!
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  6. lonewolves

    lonewolves Community Champion

    Welcome to the forum, @Corey.
    Congratulations on 15 years sober. It’s nice to know that she has someone in her life who has so many years of sobriety under their belt. I don’t think I have any advice, but I’m glad you came here. I hope that the 3 of you turn into a happy healthy family.
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  7. Corey

    Corey Member

    I got her to let me talk to her she knows now,we on same page but mater of time wel see what she does thanks for advice... 15 years ago i wish i had,all the money i spent on that crap i see alot clear for years now and yes thank the sub woofers,would,be best option long as she dont abuse them to i looked up online tryn to better my understanding of it all said most people who start sub woofers or lord tabs most likely wont ever use that H crap again i lost my mother to that same drug so i know what its like to see sum1 suffer from that im glad to be apart of this group
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  8. Corey

    Corey Member

    Im lil,slow on how to use rhis page still teyn to learn it
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  9. True concern

    True concern Community Champion

    Were glad to have you here @Corey and no problem, it takes awhile to figure the site out but your doing great and im glad your wife opened up a bit.Stay Strong my friend
  10. deanokat

    deanokat DrugAbuse.com Community Organizer Community Listener

    @Corey... I think the best thing would be for your wife to see an addiction specialist. They can assess her situation and recommend the best next steps for her. And like @True concern, I think Suboxone could probably really help her. Please know that we are here to help and support you--and your wife--however we can. Don't hesitate to reach out and lean on us, okay? Also, congrats on your 15 years of sobriety. That's AMAZING.
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  11. True concern

    True concern Community Champion

    @Corey I hope thing's are going well for you and your wife,I hope you both have found a path to recovery as far as her active addiction and your genuine concern.Maybe some NA or counseling or whatever it may be I pray your both doing well my friend. Stay Strong and God Bless
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