What are the things I can do , say and how do I act around my friend in these circumstances to help ? So many people say you should never get yourself in a setting where you can be tempted again, but being a young person( at heart and spirit at least) not going out dancing, or to a concert hamper life in a very negative way for most. So how do you help out and stay a positive force for your friend in those places? We are planning on going to Burning Man next year, and have already been in contact with a few other ex-addicts who have attended a few times and are told it is not a problem, what do you think? Are there any great festivals out there with a section for us non-drinkers and substance users to have fun and hang out?