@firefairy... I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going well. I think there's a chance that your husband's behavior could be being caused by the meds. Or, at least that the meds are contributing to it. When my son was on that stuff he was pretty lazy and just didn't seem to give a sh*t about anything. Maybe it's something you guys should ask the doctor about. You and your kids deserve better. You deserve to live happy, healthy lives. So if your husband's meds aren't contributing to his behavior, I'm not sure what to tell you. I guess I'll just say that you should probably do what's best for you and your children. None of you should have to live the way you're living. Life is supposed to be enjoyable, and you guys deserve that. Sending you peace and hugs, my friend.