Nobody is saying you have it easy, however do take your mind away from all problems and ponder those who are having it worse or have had it worse. It should give you the strength that you need to carry on your struggle. Suffering is a misfortune in general, yet if we can learn to embrace our difficulties and the pain it's the way to becoming more loving realized humans. It is an effort worth striving for, just be thankful and make the best out of what you do have. What is detrimental let it empower you in whatever way to overcome the hardship, a benign endeavor.